February 9, 2012

Kid Power! My First Heartbreak

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Have you ever felt really nervous or had jittery stomach butterflies around someone? Don’t worry, you’re not sick! It happens to all of us: crushes. Once upon a time, when I was 11 years old, I had a crush who was really mean to me. He ended up breaking my heart, but I definitely learned a lot from the experience.

He used to hang out with my neighbor, so I would see him around the neighborhood a lot. One day, he and his friend were riding their bikes past my house, and I heard him yelling really mean things about how I was ugly and had no friends! Harsh, right? The first thing I did was go inside and cry my eyes out.

But then I realized something. I am not ugly. I have never been ugly and I never will be ugly. I have wonderful friends who think I’m awesome just the way I am. OK, maybe not a lot of friends; maybe just 2 really good friends, but here’s the important thing I realized: HE DOES NOT DESERVE TO BE ONE OF THEM! He does not deserve any of my attention whatsoever.

I ignored him after that, just completely shut him out. When I saw him, I kept walking as if I didn’t know him at all. All during middle school and high school, I gave my love and attention to my true friends who saw the awesomeness and beauty in me that I knew was there. I lived happily ever after because I did not let him write MY life story!

How will this help you make the world a better place? It’s all about kid power! Heartbreak is a part of life, but you always have the power to write your own life story. Don’t get sidetracked by anyone who doesn’t think you’re awesome. Don’t let anyone stop you from doing the amazing things you were born to do!

image from kids.scholastic.comGlory, Scholastic Intern (a.k.a. CupcakeChateau4)

  1. Bookwormgirl64

    Sometimes you like a person because they’re handsome or pretty but you need to get to that person first. they might a lot different then what they are when you think about them.

  2. emeraldfire19

    I don’t understand why you even liked him if he was mean to you. But then again there is this new idea that if someone is mean to you, they might like you… lol :)

  3. kate

    you go girl! if you have a vision of happily ever after, you have to b able 2 change it. always have a plan b.

  4. Bookworm287

    I know that feeling so well. But all you must do is stay strong. Glory I feel you. I want to be you. I want to tell everyone that a crush is just a crush and can be crushed. Those are my words of wisdom:
    A crush can be crushed.
    People are mean. People will be mean. And you can ignore it.

  5. PianoGirl6

    Tough to live with them, and you can’t send them to the Yukon… you did the right thing.

  6. bob35

    Good job! i admire you for making that deciscion! it must have been hard to ignore him. i need to be more like you!

  7. earlyelf6

    Glory-I am so sorry, but so happy that you didn’t let him bother you!!!Yay! So many problems could be fixed in advance if everyone could just respect and value everyone else.

  8. Junoelf1

    Always be nice to everyone even if they are mean to you! always make someone feel included so they don’t feel left out like Glory felt like with her crush. Cool article!

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